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Bob

682 posts in 256 days
hardiness zone 3b

176 days ago

Topic tags/keywords: humor

First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while
they were pregnant. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can, and didn’t
get tested for diabetes.
Then after that trauma, we were put to sleep on our tummies in baby cribs
covered with bright colored lead-based paints.
We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when
we rode our bikes, we had no helmets, not to mention, the risks we took
hitchhiking. As infants &children, we would ride in cars with no car seats, booster
seats, seat belts or air bags.
Riding in the back of a pick up on a warm day was always a special treat.
We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bot tle.
We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE
actually died from this.
We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter and drank Kool-aid made with
sugar, but we weren’t overweight because,
WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were
back when the streetlights came on.
No one was able to reach us all day and we were OK.

We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride
down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes After running into
the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem.
We did not have Play stations, Nintendo’s, X-boxes, no video games at all,
no 150 channels on cable, no video movies or DVD’s, no surround-sound or
CD’s, no cell phones, no personal computer! s, no Internet or chat
rooms…....

WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!
We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no
lawsuits from these accidents.

We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us
forever.
We were given BB guns for our 10th birthdays, made up games with sticks
and tennis balls and, although we were told it would happen, we did not
poke out very many eyes.

We rode bikes or walked to a friend’s house and knocked on the door or
rang the bell, or just walked in and talked to them!
Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn’t
had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!!
The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of.
They actually sided with the law!
These generations have produced some of the best risk-takers, problem
solvers and inventors ever!
The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.
We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL!

If YOU are one of them CONGRATULATIONS!
You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up
as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated so much of our
lives for our own good .
While you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave
(and lucky) their parents were.

Kind of makes you want to run through the house with scissors, doesn’t it?!

The quote of the month is by Jay Leno:

‘With hurricanes, tornado’s, fires out of control, mud slides, flooding,
severe thunderstorms tearing up the country from one end to another, and
with the threat of bird flu and terrorist attacks, are we sure this is a
good time to take God out of the Pledge of Allegiance?’

For those that prefer to think that God is not watching over us…go ahead
and delete this.

For the rest of us…pass this ON!

-- I want to believe in a lot of things but, in the meantime I have to deal with the truth

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GrandmaT

3217 posts in 386 days
hardiness zone 5

176 days ago

Amen Bob …

And man did this bring back a swirl of memories … Playing Kick The Can till the street lights came on; running up to your best friends side/back door and half yelling/singing into the screen door (cuz there was no air conditiioning) ... “Can Linda Come Out and Play??!!!” Playing hide and seek in the woods and not being afraid some “sicko” would kidnap you. And make believe, we could play for hours going wherever our imaginations could take us that day?? It was a simplier time …

It is sad that our grandchildren will not know this kind of world … I worry about them so …

-- "A perfect garden is just a garden to be in-perfection. Mornings to work on it and evenings to pause and look at it." Southeast Michigan, Zone 5a/5b

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Catspaw

170 posts in 305 days

176 days ago

Well, I have no problem with the way other people think about things, but, my opinion is we look after ourselves and we survive. I don’t think the next generation will have near as much fun as we did.

-- arborial reconfiguration specialist......Zone out....(USA 5)

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dini

755 posts in 225 days
hardiness zone 5

176 days ago

What about “spotlight tag” after dark thru every back yard on the block (nobody had a back fence, except maybe around the dog run or veggie bed)?

-- the day you quit learning is the day you quit living.

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Bunting

601 posts in 232 days
hardiness zone 5b

176 days ago

Bob

Oh so true

I was always playing ball somewhere or picking blueberries in the pasture not far away but mom and dad never worried about us

When it was time to come home,

dad stood on the doorstep and let out his shrill loud whistle. WE came running. Play time was over.

Then today I hear on the news, 2 little girls, best friends, 10 and 11 years old were talking a walk along an old country road where they lived. Somewhere in the US

Dad becomes worried about them and he went looking for them. He found them both shot dead on the side of the road

Now who would shoot 2 little girls and why is there so many weirdos out there these days

What is wrong with this world today?? Scared for my grandsons when scared was never something we thought of when we were young. Not in the same manner as today

-- NS Zone 5B 200 KM East of Halifax cheers Bunting------Having a place to go – is a home. Having someone to love – is a family.

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Eklectic

1476 posts in 308 days
hardiness zone 5a

175 days ago

We did have a good time!
We were never bored!
Our best friend was our imagination! And we ran with it!!!
Lying down in the grass, watching the clouds, finding all the worlds that lived on them…...

-- Eklectic, Follow my Bliss, South East Ontario 5a

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Catspaw

170 posts in 305 days

175 days ago

I’ve decided to de-volve. I’m trying to go back. Youth is not the goal, rather the life style….when making a living meant…...fire, water, shelter, food. It’s so odd that my degree is in electronics (and I still have a great interest in it), but, my goal is to reject technology as much as possible.

......o.k. ....o.k. ....I still want some solar PV panels and such…BUT THE REST I’m going to reject…..o.k. maybe not my tractor…yet….. and maybe my computer.

-- arborial reconfiguration specialist......Zone out....(USA 5)

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Bob

682 posts in 256 days
hardiness zone 3b

175 days ago

I am going to devolve too!
Today my insurance company told me they would not cover products I selll made in China.

I told them that was O.K. that nearly all my products originate there and that I would be seeking insurance there as well.

Have a great Day!

Bob

-- I want to believe in a lot of things but, in the meantime I have to deal with the truth

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roman

636 posts in 328 days

175 days ago

I chose to raise my two daughters alone and have no regrets. When the youngest daughter (recently graduated from health scince with a 4.0 average) left home my better half and I bought the farm and her three children live here too. When it was just me and my kids, they never got an X Box, there was no TV and “volunteering” was mandatory. I bought them what they “needed” and they had to buy what they “wanted”.

I find this age we now live in, the age of “entitlement” which is my nemesis. As I have told the oldest boy here, that he is very well balanced. he isnt “needy”....he doesnt need to cook, he doesnt need to clean, nor does he need to do laundry, cut the grass, shovel snow, paint, but this is all balanced with his need to sleep in, go to parties, use the car, eat, and watch TV. He doesnt need to study either. The fact that all three kids that live here have this tremendous sense of “entiltlement” isnt really their fault but the day is coming where it will become “their problem”. They are so confused in what is a “right” and what is a “privilage”. I constantly hear the 16 year old girl speak about “when I have kids” and I shake my head because she cant pick up the dog poop, nor fillthe dogs water bowl, feed the dog, or walk the dog so I do wondewr what she willdo when she does have a kid….........”call Mom”........

I wont paint all kids with the same brush but when a kid, a green horn, comes in for job and says he “doesnt sweep”, cant change a flat tire, wont use a screw driver, spends an hour looking for the power tool that takes 5 seconds with a hand tool and then wants to tell me how I should “run the shop”.

I fear for their future

-- Central northish Ontario

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GrandmaT

3217 posts in 386 days
hardiness zone 5

175 days ago

You are right Greenthumb … the young (and not so young) adults now live in a world where they think they are entitled to whatever they want. Life owes them. Teenagers figure they can life with mom/dad forever; no thought of actually having to provide for themselves or the future. Young married think they should have that big, new house filled with new furniture and two brand new cars as well. There is no willlingness to work your way up to the “grander things” that come with time. They don’t think nor question. If it is too hard than don’t bother.

Our children, who are now adults and raising families, were taught to value God and family. They know what honest hard work is and the reward it brings. They were taught to think for themselves; don’t accept concepts, so called truths until you have researched them out for yourself. Ask questions. Lead, don’t follow … I’m very proud of who our children have turned out to be as adults. We are a close knit family … and as I watch them instill the same values they grew up with to their children I know there is hope.

-- "A perfect garden is just a garden to be in-perfection. Mornings to work on it and evenings to pause and look at it." Southeast Michigan, Zone 5a/5b

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Bunting

601 posts in 232 days
hardiness zone 5b

174 days ago

I raise my 3 alone too and now 30 year later I am alone

I hate it some of the time

WE as kids played hop scotch, allies, skip robe, that sort of thing and always outside

Now kids are addicted to computers, video games. They are the new baby sitters is how I see it

They just looked at me as if I am crazy the day I brought them softballs and bats and squirt guns

They don’t have ball and bats in their elementary schools now

What is wrong with the school systems theses days and they talk about kids over weight.

I think the teachers are just as lazy they can’t play these games with the kids or at least take the time to teach them

-- NS Zone 5B 200 KM East of Halifax cheers Bunting------Having a place to go – is a home. Having someone to love – is a family.

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dini

755 posts in 225 days
hardiness zone 5

174 days ago

I think a lot of it in the schools is a liability thing. Unless the parents sign waivers, the kids can’t participate in any activity involving “actions or equipment the use of which may cause injury”. Thus no field hockey, baseball, volleyball…........the list goes on.

-- the day you quit learning is the day you quit living.

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Bob

682 posts in 256 days
hardiness zone 3b

174 days ago

I think you are right Dini.
Between the “lawyers” and the insurance companies your are lucky if you have enough left after premiums to live on.
Recently ,my insurance company refused to insure me if I purchased products from China.
I am in the process of canceling the insurance and seeking a company overseas that can identify the risk and offer me a decent premium
Quite frankly it is no more or less than legitimized robbery!

Corporate America sucks! – they have no conscience and no morals and that will ultimately cost them everything.

Bob

-- I want to believe in a lot of things but, in the meantime I have to deal with the truth

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dini

755 posts in 225 days
hardiness zone 5

174 days ago

You got that right, Bob! There isn’t a megacorp out there that remembers that it’s their CUSTOMER who keeps them afloat!

-- the day you quit learning is the day you quit living.

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